Relationship 202: SEXpectations One

I have fantasies on occasion. Some of the thoughts that go through my head are occasionally about sex. I look at a fine woman sometimes and wonder what she looks like without her clothes on. I cannot help it, I am a young adult male, whose hormones are racing even still after puberty and all that other mumbo jumbo that one learns in Health class. I think that after all of the fantasies and dreams that I still have this expectation that sex will be like what I see in Booty Talk and Keepin It Real. The sweating and moaning and all that. However, sex is a little more sacred than that. In the previous encounters that I have had, there has been with some passion. Some feeling of butterflies in the stomach and no one had to pay me to make sure my dick was hard for an hour and a half so I could make sure that I came right on cue. I needed no direction as to how to perform and satisfy my girlfriends. But I have come to a point where I want more than just sex. I want a relationship that propels me to thank GOD once again for his goodness. I have yet to see many women on this campus worthy of what they call a "Good Man." Yes, we are still growing as individuals, but, the media has brainwashed into thinking that what we will end up with is something on the front of Sports Illustrated, Playboy, and all of the other magazines that portray skin as their subject. My friend, Lauren, recently told me that many women are not ready for men of value and substance, which seems to be a phrase that I adopted. They cannot handle a man who has his head screwed on correctly (tightened and bolted) nor can they comprehend the fact that all men are not dogs and that all men are not just out for the hunt. I am sure there are some good men out here on this campus. I consider myself a Good Man, who wants a quality relationship with a Good Woman. This however is an expectation of mine. Whether this will ring true while I am in this hellhole called Howard - that is another story. Immaturity seems to spread its venom within the young ladies on this campus. Immaturity is very powerful, almost as powerful as the feeling of trying all the Kama Sutra positions listed in that sex guide some of us have sitting on our wooden desks in our dorm rooms or the sex toys the women buy to pleasure themselves or the Booty Talks and Debbie Does Dallas' us men watch. I watch porn, so do not get the impression by any means that I have sworn off porn because what man does that. People just have not grown up to where I am at this point in time. They need to get on my level. A lot of people say that they are grown & sexy yet do not know what either word means. Most people who claim to be grown & sexy are living in a delusional world known as bullshit. That is a great world except for the fact that bullshit is just that - bullshit. What kind of expectations do you have for your relationships? Women are you willing to settle for an average Joe? Fellas, are you willing to fuck an average Bonquisha? I highly doubt it. But then we are faced with another powerful element - loneliness. This is very powerful, almost to the point where it can overtake our existence completely. Because of this loneliness we come to accept anything and that is pronounced NE THINN. We need to stop settling for the hamburger when we can get the whole roast. We are worth better than that. What are your SEXpectations? Are you willing to just take anything to satisfy your hunger of the moaning and groaning and sweat or do you think you deserve more? By more I mean, unconditional romance and the passion that comes with a satisfying relationship. We all want sex. Sex is what makes the world go round, but often times we get hung up on how frequently we do it instead of who we do it with.

Think this was good....get ready for SEXpectations Two.