Eggs In A Basket

The most interesting thing about making the first move towards anything more than a friendship is that you have decided to put all of your eggs in one basket. Occasionally, the eggs break and sometimes they hatch. There is this typical assumption that men approach women and not the other way around. What is it about human nature that makes the female species think she is just all that, where she does not have to do anything as far as taking a friendship to 2nd base? I wanted to pull out my psychology book from Freshman year but I sold it to HUB for $50, so the answer is going to have to come from what I have noticed. Women have this notion that everyone wants them - everyone. Every man wants to fuck them and every woman wants to look like them. They could be the finest thing on this earth or as ugly as dung, but this is what I have noticed especially on this campus, considering how this is the one I reside on. There are a few bold women out there woman enough (you know they always talk about how men aren't bold enough or man enough to do shit) to walk up to someone they are attracted to and get them digits. It happens like less than 20 % of the time however. Partly because they feel like they are the shit and do not need to. But you can tell the bold women out there. They are the ones on the yard not showing their stretch marks and ass cheeks. These are women who I call women with substance and value. That is a new phrase I have adopted. A woman who is attractive can look good in anything she wears be it a skirt or pants. Typically, the woman showing stretch marks and ass cheeks is the woman who needs to tuck those away underneath a sweater and some pants. Now I love nice juicy asses like the next man, but I like to think of myself as a man who enjoys all parts of the woman including her mind. Personality and looks mean a lot to me. Having an airhead girlfriend is not someone you can bring home to mommy.

I can only imagine how the woman must feel as she struts her stuff across campus. She is like prey and what is even more interesting is that she wants to be preyed upon. 99.9 % of women automatically think that when a man says hello that he is trying to get between them legs. However, that is not always the case, at least not until later. Women forget that It takes 2 to tango. 2 to have sex. 2 to knock boots. 2 to fuck. All of those fragments say basically the same things, I just wanted to bring it down to your level. Whatever it may be. It is all a game of desire. Who can play on whose desires the longest? How long can a woman play games? How long can a male play games? The flirting, the looks, the glances (well those are same as looks), all come into play in this desire game. But do we all really have time for this? Our time could be spent on focusing on what we are going to eat for dinner or what we are going to be doing for the summer. There are so many other things that we could be spending our time on. I say realize what you want and go for it. Just do not put all of your eggs in one basket because more than likely those eggs will get stolen or broken and you will be left to clean up the mess. Yolk and egg whites are a lot to clean up and anyone who has ever made breakfast - not continental - knows this. Men go for a woman with substance and ladies go for a man with substance. You should be able to bring your girlfriend/boyfriend home to mommy. If not, then you should rethink who you snuggle up next to at night.

Life has many parts, can you break them?